Saturday, March 2, 2013

Children need their parents but they also need our voice to make the world a better place for them.
Break the silence ~Be Pro-active-~Be Responsible

What to teach your children

Say no when something feels uncomfortable, very strange or alarming.

* Don’t go along with doing something just because an adult — including a relative or family friend — says do it. This doesn’t mean refuse to do household chores that other people usually do.

* Your private parts are your own. Don’t let someone violate your personal space.

* A stranger who offers "cool" gifts and enticing items may be trying to lead you to a private place, including a car, where bad things could happen to you.

* Just because a person is an adult doesn’t mean they have the right to do things that make you feel queasy or alarmed.

* Be alarmed if someone asks you to not tell anyone about something strange the person did to you.

* It is OK to be concerned if someone tries to lead you off alone to a private place that makes you feel uneasy.

* It isn’t worth keeping a friendship if it means doing things that make you feel bad.

Source: American Academy of Pediatrics.

Common Myths about sexual abuse:

 

Common Myths about sexual abuse:

Most child sexual abuse is perpetrated by a pedophile, a stranger lurking in the neighborhood. Sexual abuse is blown up in the media. Boys are rarely sexually abused. Incest is infrequent. Sexual abuse primarily happens in the lower class. Females are never abusers. Sexual abuse has a minor impact on children. Sexual abusers are usually sent to jail.

Facts

Most sexual abuse are perpetrated by people that you know. Sexual abuse is bigger than what the media expose because many crimes go unreported. Boy are abused at the same rate as girls. 70% of the population are incest survivors (sexually abused by parents, grandparents and relatives) Child abuse occurs at every socioeconomic level, no culture is exempt from this cancerous epidemic. Females are abusers and they can be more cruel and calculating than a man. Child abuse has a high impact on children. It changes the child emotional and mental stage for life. Sexual abuser are not always sent to jail because many crimes go unreported and when they do go to jail they give them a minimum sentence.